What If???

ON RELATIONSHIPS…..

• WHAT IF you had no expectations?
• WHAT IF you could be ALONE without feeling lonely?
• WHAT IF you placed no agenda or projected the future onto budding relationships?
• WHAT IF you allowed a relationship to evolve at its own pace?
• WHAT IF when someone left the relationship, you didn't feel rejected?
• WHAT IF you could have your needs met outside of a ROMANTIC relationship?
• WHAT IF you don't have to give up yourself to be loved?
• WHAT IF everyone could be your soul mate?
• WHAT IF everyone you met was assigned to you either to teach you or learn from you:
• WHAT IF you became emotionally available by learning about yourself?
• WHAT IF there isn't just ONE "TYPE" of person just for you?
• WHAT IF you stayed in a relationship when you felt commitment anxiety..... Until you worked through your fears.?
• WHAT IF equality could be maintained in a relationship if each had a strong sense of their OWN individuality?
• WHAT IF you could AGREE to DISAGREE about issues that cause conflict in the relationship?
• WHAT IF You redefined gender roles?
• WHAT IF power and control were not necessary?
• WHAT IF winning an argument was not important?
• WHAT IF divorce wasn't failure?
• WHAT IF divorce had the potential to free you from an unsatisfactory relationship, allow you to DEVELOP as an adult and CHANGE in gratifying ways?
• WHAT IF sometimes, divorce is positive and necessary and can result in greater personal contentment, increased self-esteem and healthier levels of psychological functioning.?
• WHAT IF you are only alive to learn how to LOVE and FORGIVE?
• WHAT IF WE CHANGED OUR BELIEFS AND EXPECTATIONS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS